At some point in our careers (when we’re working for other people), many of us figure out that we just can’t keep doing what we’ve been doing. Not. One. More. Day.
Getting out of bed to start our workday has grown increasingly difficult. We know… it will be another monotonous, predictable, yet demanding and stressful, 8-10 hour day. We have become very clear that this job, which takes up the majority of our days, is slowly draining the life out of us and we don’t want more and more of this same situation. And, we realize that the only way to do more of what we want to be doing is to start our own business and be our own boss. However… the idea of starting your own business probably raises fear, anxiety, self-doubt, and… all of the reasons why you should NOT venture into new territory… Reasons like these 5:
#1: I don’t know the first thing about starting, running, or marketing my own business.
#2: I don’t have enough money to start my own business.
#3: I’ll miss working on a team and having people I can consult with.
#4: I’m afraid my business will fail and I may not be able to get my job back.
#5: It’s not the right time for me to start a business.
There are just too many good reasons to stick with your current situation — no matter how unfulfilling, rigid, or demanding it may be.
But, if we could just pause for a moment and imagine this:
What if striking out on your own meant greater freedom, better income, a flexible schedule, more time with your friends and/or family and, maybe… making your own dreams come true?
For those of us who have taken the leap… it has meant these things (and much more). Most of us cannot imagine ever working for someone else… ever again. Sure, it was a little scary at first — and some of us did it with very little knowhow, no training, no support, very little money, and plenty of nay-sayers. Yet… we rose to the challenge and came out ahead (and so much happier!).
Now, if you have never done something like this before, it is easy to let your fears and the voices of doubters hold you back. Sometimes, we would rather hold on to the unhappy “known” than let go and leap into the unknown. If this sounds like you, think about this: every new entrepreneur experiences fear – but they open new businesses anyway. What’s their secret? They learn to manage their fears just as they manage other aspects of their business.
Fear makes the wolf bigger than he is. -German Proverb
So, let’s explore how you might tame those fears so that you can take your leap forward into the life you really want, owning your own business — and being your own boss.
#1: I don’t know the first thing about starting, running, or marketing my own business.
Neither did most of us when we first decided to go into business for ourselves. There are lots of resources to help you learn how to do this. Small Business Development Centers, SCORE, articles on the internet, etc. Find a mentor, or a business partner that has a lot of business experience. You may want to learn how you can become a part of the Divorce With Dignity Network, allowing you to open your own divorce legal services business with an established system already in place that comes with personalized and robust training, mentoring, and marketing support.
#2: I don’t have enough money to start a business.
Learn more about funding at websites such as www.sba.gov or by talking with a local Small Business Development counselor. People get loans to start businesses all the time, and it may not take as much as you think to get started.
#3: I’ll miss working on a team and having people I can consult with.
Whether you join a professional networking group or an established Network like the Divorce With Dignity Network, you’ll find that you’ll quickly develop a wonderful team of people to share ideas, exchange referrals, and, most importantly, receive critical encouragement.
#4: I’m afraid my business will fail and I may not be able to get my job back.
This is the most common fear. Join business support or networking groups and listen to the success stories of others. Start changing the sentences you say to yourself that begin with “I can’t…” to open-ended questions that start off with “How can I …?” Also, consider joining an established network of independent business owners, like the Divorce With Dignity Network, Inc. You will be your own boss and run your own divorce legal services business, but will also have many advantages – such as a nationally-known business name, a website page, marketing materials, training and mentoring, and much more.
#5: It’s not the right time for me to start a business.
Guess what. There is no “right” time. If you wait for just the right time to reach for your dreams, you will probably be waiting a long time, and may miss out altogether.
Still hesitating? Think how you will feel if you do NOT give it a try. Power through your fears, make a commitment to make it happen, then take the leap! Take action to create the life you want — a life that you’re in control of. Let us help you succeed – take the first step towards becoming a Divorce With Dignity Network Provider!
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The author of this blog is not an attorney or financial advisor and the information contained in these blogs should not be considered legal or financial advice. Please do not hesitate to seek the advice of an attorney or financial advisor if you have any legal or financial questions.
